Amusing 9 lines as smooth as jazz for girls.

We do not think it's a good idea to approach a man other than smile discretely. But if you're up to some fun!

Here are nine lines you might exercise the next time you see a guy you'd like to chat to:

1. Stroke. The male ego loves a little stroke. Why not use that to your advantage? "If I see a man with a gorgeous smile, I tell him so in a very casual way, pausing just long enough for him to get a good look at me. Then I keep moving... a guy tracks me down and we start talking."

2. Touchdown. If you're a sports fan, you've got a leg up on some of the other girls. With the season in full swing, use your sports insight as an opener. "Make a comment about a play or a draft pick, and you'll definitely get an attention."

3. Sympathy. Working the crowd at a party or bar can get a little dull, so a bit of compassion from an attractive woman is a very warm welcome in these situations. "If you see him being bored at a party, you could come closer over and say - 'I feel your pain' as an opening line."

4. Giggle. When you're dating online, you may like to add a little spark. Neutral humour often helps. Plus "Having your best picture online is the most important factor indeed, but a full orginal and engaging presentation can definitely assure his attention."

5. Asking for an advice can be a great ice-breaker. "If you see a hottie in a hardware store don't hesitate to ask him for advice/recommendations - if he helps you out - offer him some coffee. It works."

6. Friendly language. Feeling daring? Up to a bit of 'sexy factor'? "At a party, you should indeed flirt a little bit more than normal and be approachable; he will most likely invite you to dance soon after."

7. Common interests. You could just ask him to get a group together for a hike. "If you have been exchanging 'good mornings' with a trainer at the gym for sometime, you could just ask him if he'd like to take the workout outside or maybe get a group together for a hike? - You may be dating soon."

8. Listen. Be a good listener and find out what his interests are. "If you are a big music lover, and you see a guy in a CD store grooving to the music you like, you can initiate a conversation from there. You could also offer to burn him a CD of similar tunes and suggest meeting again to give it to him."

9. Results. Sometimes you can also skip the formalities. "If you were sitting on a train, wracking your brain for something pithy to say to a nice looking man down the coupe, just move to the seat alongside him. See if he will make the first move, or otherwise, compliment him about something to get his attention. At the end of the day, just don't feel embarrassed or worried after dropping a line. Consider it as a friendly gesture.".

But most importantly just be yourself. Take good care, be happy and confident - that certainly works big time!!! And of course, enjoy yourself in the process!


Kind regards,

The CityDating Team