Fun and Safety with CityDating.com

One of the safest ways of meeting new people is online, which can also be great fun as well!

Our clients are Busy Professional Singles, of the highest caliber and are looking for companionship, romance and love; just like you. Most people are honest, but we also do everything we can to make certain that your visit to CityDating is a safe and pleasant one. Nonetheless, all members and ladies in particular may consider following simple rules to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience both on and offline dating:

Never quickly give out your personal details, such as your e-mail address, telephone number and especially your home address, until you are sure that you want to meet a particular person. We specifically designed our system to allow all your correspondence to be done anonymously through our CityDating service.
   
You may like to set up an additional e-mail address and/or a mobile number (which you can easily change) just for dating purposes.
   
You of course can flirt a bit with your potential date but don’t encourage things you may regret when meeting face to face at a later time.
   
Remember, our aim is your satisfaction and safety, so please report to support@citydating.co.uk any member who is sending inappropriate messages or suggestions, so that we can take the necessary action.
   
Always meet in a public place, like a bar or restaurant. Do not arrange to be picked up from your home or even work. Never allow your date to make arrangements for your travel or hotel accommodation.
   
Tell a friend or family member who and where you are meeting. It is also a good idea to let the friend know what time you will be back and whether your date is going well.
   
Consider arranging a double date with some of your friends or going out in a group.
   
Always have an escape plan for the unexpected or if the date is not successful. You may like to ask your friend to call, which will allow you to leave quickly and politely, if necessary.
   
Remember a person, who is truly interested in you, will certainly appreciate the time it takes to get to know you, so don't rush into anything. Less can sometimes be more! Slower can be quicker!
   
And as always, use your common sense and intuition (they are often right) – if in doubt, get out.

Finally, have fun while meeting your future dream partner via CityDating. Many people have and now so can you. If you have any questions or feedback, please share them with us.


Successful First Date

As you know the first impression can last forever or at least goes a long way, so you may like to make the most of it and remind yourself of the basic ingredients for a successful first date:

Self-confidence. Be normal, be yourself - confident and happy. Make conversation, if you are
a man or allow your date to take the first steps, if you are a woman.
   
Be positive. Life is beautiful and positive attracts positive, so to make sure you are getting
a great date, just be great yourself!
   
Talk with, not at. Listening and questioning are a very important part of every conversation. So, if you like your date, show your interest by listening and asking questions.
   
Flirt but just not too much. Flirting is great, but can also give a wrong impression so better not to over do it. There’ll be plenty of time for flirtation when the relationship develops!
   
Dress to impress, smart/sexy but without looking like you’ve tried too hard. Moderation is everything. Be clean and well-groomed, and dress appropriately for the occasion – casual for a pub or local restaurant, smarter for the ballet or theatre.
   
Beware the demon drink. When you’re excited and maybe slightly nervous, it’s easy to keep on refilling your glass. But you want to keep in control of yourself, so how about limiting yourself to just a couple of drinks. And a woman particularly might question the motives of a man who keeps trying to ploy her with alcohol…
   
Just enjoy yourself. Meeting new people is fascinating, especially when you may be meeting your future partner, so it helps to feel optimistic and look forward to having a great time together!

It’s your turn to be happy! So good luck and have fun!